| I recently read and enjoyed the
debate between yourself and John Kundert, as published in Fig Leaf Forum.
As someone who has personally grappled with the question of whether social
nudism is sinful, and reached a conclusion after a lot of prayer and study,
I appreciated both sides of the argument. Even though I enjoy nudism, my
commitment to God comes first. That means if I can be convinced that my
practice of nudism is a sin, and therefore a hindrance to my sharing eternity
with God, I will gladly walk away from it.
John quoted several examples of nudity in the Bible, including God's
command to Isaiah to publicly preach nude. I was hoping you would use references
showing where God condemned nudity. Even allowing for my admitted bias,
I would have to award the debate to John for sticking to the topic.
Although the proposition of debate was "Social nudity is condemned by
the Bible as sinful," your approach unfortunately focused on the easier
"Lust is condemned by the Bible as sinful." As you pointed out, John didn't
respond in much detail to your questions about lust. While he may have
appeared evasive, I feel he was devoting his attention instead to the agreed
topic.
First of all, what is lust? "A strong desire for sexual gratification"
(Collins); "a strong sexual desire" (Oxford). Lust is more than merely
seeing an attractive woman. We do that everyday. Lust is a thought process,
a conscious decision that directs sexual feelings and desires towards another.
It is the mental planning of adultery. As to your specific points:
1. Nudity leads to lust. Superficially, yes. In our culture,
nudity always seems to be associated with sex, titillation and immoral
behaviour. Nudity is found in men's magazines, R rated movies, pornographic
videos, strip clubs and prostitution. But not all nudity is sexual in nature.
We undress to shower and bathe, when sleeping (well, not everyone), and
during a medical examination. We see non-sexual nudity in classical art,
including the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel.
Is all nudity evil? No. Does all nudity lead to lust? No. If it did,
no Christian could ever be involved in the medical profession.
Does social nudity lead to lust? Lust can occur anywhere, so theoretically
it is possible. Having visited all types of beaches, I maintain that there
is more temptation and invitation for lust when women wear skimpy swimming
costumes than when they don't. To describe a typical swimming costume as
modest is stretching the definition. Today's swimwear is designed to enhance
the body, to draw attention to those small parts that are almost covered.
The body is contorted to fit whatever shape is currently fashionable. In
short, these costumes make women look more sexually attractive than they
would without.
At the nude beach, there is no pretense, no effort to conform to an
unrealistic ideal shape. As for lusting, there's no point in mentally undressing
someone who is already naked. The fact is, only a minute percentage of
the female population will ever have a model's body, and then only for
a relatively few years of their lives.
At the clothed end of the beach, women are pretending they're someone
else and men are using their imagination to make up the shortfall. That's
what I call lust. Meanwhile, further down the beach where the nudists take
refuge, it's difficult to lust when you aren't hiding behind swim trunks.
The result of any inappropriate thoughts is there for all to see.
So, does nudism lead to lust? In practical terms, no. If a man went
to a nude beach and remained clothed, then his motives would appear suspect.
But once he undresses, any sexual arousal is obvious. Practising nudism
develops an attitude that controls lust and inappropriate thoughts, not
only at nudist venues but in everyday situations.
2. Nudity causes others to lust. I'm prepared to concede
some ground on this one. I have no control over others' thoughts. But that
applies in every other situation in life.
In your comments you applied the risk of lust equally to men and women.
While politically correct, I feel it's a bit harsh to attribute the same
level of moral depravation to both sexes. Unfortunately, men are clear
leaders if criminal records are any measure. Women peering at my body with
lustful thoughts? They'd have to be sick indeed.
Those who attend nudist venues with the sole purpose of "perving" don't
fit in with the nudist movement. They usually leave disappointed. Unlike
strip clubs or topless bars, women in nudism aren't parading for the benefit
of others. They aren't selling a commercial product, offering entertainment
or touting for sex. They fail to satisfy the misguided fantasies these
strange men have.
Does this mean because nudism attracts even a small group of men to
lust, then it must be sinful? Paedophiles are attracted to the Boy Scout
movement and the Catholic Church, but that hardly makes either sinful.
It's better to remove the offender than blame the victim and the organisation.
If we are going to blame the woman for what a man is thinking, then we'll
have to blame the boy scout for what his leader did to him.
No. When I sin, as we all do, I'll take full responsibility for my own
actions, and I expect everyone else to do the same.
3. Promoting nudism destroys your influence for good.
How vigorously is John Kundert promoting nudism amongst Christians? Unless
you were seriously researching the subject, you would probably never find
his Web site. So he caters to those who are already interested in nudism,
and specifically those with Christian beliefs. I feel he is teaching Christianity
to nudists, not nudism to all Christians.
The material on his site, and others like it, is an enormous benefit
to Christian nudists who feel they are living a clandestine life. Hopefully,
he can strengthen those who feel they have to abandon their faith if they
choose to enjoy nudism. When nudism is causing marital conflict because
only one partner is interested, this information can help to resolve concerns.
Christian nudists focus on the puritanical application rather than the
hedonism promoted by some extremists.
Some will say Christian nudists aren't open about their activities because
deep-down they know it's wrong, and that they must be trying to hide their
sins. The early Christians also had to practise in secret when they were
regarded as a heretical sect. Of course Christianity isn't and never was
a sin. They hid to escape the intolerance and prejudice prevalent in their
society. The Gospel was shared only with those they trusted and cared about.
The analogy between nudism and Christianity has obvious limitations.
My faith is much more important to me than what I wear (or don't wear)
at the beach. Nudism won't save me. I am not afraid to be criticised or
mocked for my religious beliefs. But why would I want to invite ridicule
over something as insignificant as my choice of clothing?
4. Promoting nudism leads others to sin. That brings us
to the central question, Is nudism a sin? If it is, then promoting it WILL
lead others to sin. I regard nudity as sinful in these situations:
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when used to shock or offend
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where it is illegal
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if used in a sexual context outside of marriage, like in pornography, strip
clubs, topless entertainment, etc.
Whether social nudity is a sin or not will be forever debated, but the
Scriptural evidence I've read fails to condemn it and actually condones
it in certain situations.
Teaching that nudity is always evil carries the same danger as teaching
that sex is always a sin. For some, total abstinence is acceptable while
for others it creates intolerable pressures with devastating consequences
(for example, molested altar boys). As Paul said in 1 Corinthians 7.9,
"But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry
than to burn" (KJV). It's better to advocate under which circumstances
sex and nudity are acceptable.
5. Why be nude with others? Few critics of nudism would
regard nudity between a husband and wife as sinful. The question of propriety
only arises when others are involved. The argument follows that nudity
is fine with your spouse, but if you want to be nude with others there
must be another motive.
The primary reason for being nude with others is the lack of suitable
venues. Few of us have the resources to purchase our own beach, lake or
acreage. Legal nude beaches allow people to skinny-dip without breaking
the law or risk offending others. The company of others is incidental.
Some resorts have grounds large enough for couples to find their own space
and enjoy their nudity in private. But having others within sight ensures
appropriate behaviour. People are also sociable by nature. We seek and
enjoy the company of like-minded people with similar attitudes and values.
Social nudity also has an unexpected benefit for women. Because of our
culture's obsession with the perfect female body, the only nudity most
of us see consists of the underfed, surgically enhanced, or air-brushed
models appearing in the media. If that's what women are comparing themselves
to, it's no wonder so many are unsatisfied with their body shape, and why
the beauty industry makes billions.
When a woman sees other women naked, all ages, shapes and sizes, she
compares herself with reality, not fantasy. The process of realising that
she is physically normal and achieving body acceptance is a tremendous
boost to her self-esteem.
In summary, nudism is not for every Christian. And with respect, I am
not implying that each of the following applies to everyone opposed to
it. Christians should not practise nudism if:
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they sincerely believe it is a sin
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they haven't matured beyond the adolescent obsession with anything remotely
sexual
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they feel their motives might be lustful
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it causes marital conflict
I don't expect to convert you to the cause. In your debate you raised some
concerns that I have attempted to answer. I've had to resolve these same
issues myself before I could enjoy nudism in good conscience. Those who
have never personally experienced social nudism probably suspect an undercurrent
of sexuality. I haven't seen it yet. What I have hoped to demonstrate is
that it is possible for a Christian to maintain high standards in different
situations.
Editor's Note: After the debate about social nudism was published
in Issue 55/56 of Fig Leaf Forum and placed on this Web site, many readers
took the time to write directly to Mark Roberts. Copies of several of these
letters were forwarded to the editor of Fig Leaf Forum and the above was
among them. It was published in Issue 60 and has been slightly edited for
space and clarity. |